Healthy boundaries are good for all sides in relationships. Without some ground rules, one is often left feeling drained, unmotivated, resentful, and often ends up feeling used and abused (so to speak). This is because one side is often taking more than the other is receiving and is by no means necessarily done consciously or on purpose (most times). However, after people set a boundary, others will continue to try crossing the line, consciously or unconsciously. When this ha

Most of us have experienced loss and the accompanying grief in our lives, at some point in life. Death shows up in variety of ways, including the loss of relationships, health, careers, loss of hopes (and dreams) and in many other forms. One of the hardest griefs we can face in life is “living grief.” Of course, grieving a child is one of the worst losses anyone can experience, next to watching a loved one close the gap on death. Living grief starts gently, but it quickly tur

You are a beautiful soul who has the power to manifest anything in life you set your whole mind, heart and belief to. You have the ability to make it your reality; the power lies with you. Set into motion what you would like to unfold in your life. As you do so, trust in the outcome as you relax, surrender and let go to the power, the will and the love of the divine within you today. Know with all your being, it will manifest somehow even more beautiful then you may expect or

People always judge me as someone who has struggled with weight, no matter what size I was (fat, thin, or somewhere in between). Over the years, I would get varying opinions on what they thought I should look like, what I should be doing, what I should be eating, and so much more. At fifty-one years old, I don't have time for opinions anymore and say to each of these people, F..k off. It is none of your business. Mind your vibration, and let me mind mine. Thank you. I underst

Many moons ago, Spirit shared with me about how our Souls and Soul contracts play a role in the bigger picture, and it was an interesting take at the time. Today, I am going to share a snip of that conversation with you. We are Divine (GOD) energy individualized as Souls who choose to incarnate on the Earth to experience, evolve and expand. We decide to come here without our full memories while having access to the divine spark within, which would facilitate our Re-Membering

Far too often, we as human beings take advantage of the trees in the city. We forget that they also are in service for us as a planet, and each other. Today, I awoke to the sounds of chainsaws cutting down a beloved Maple tree that has been growing for over 30 years with its trunk being about 20-30 inches and height over 50 feet, I am sure. This Maple tree was standing tall, proud, and brought me a smile each day; it did so as I sat on the balcony or looked out the windows of

Despite anything that is unfolding in life, there is more than enough of everything available to you. Be open, receptive and allow what is already divinely yours in, and you too shall experience it. Whether it is a loving relationship, better health, more money, more friends, or something else, trust that you already have it within you available to you through you. Everything flows to you, through you by you. You are all! Like someone once said to someone who had given up on

You always are free to be who you wish to be in the world. You were promised the free will when your soul was created and born into this world. Thus, the power always lies within you to choose whatever your desire in life. You did so knowing there are always consequences to every choice, and it could have ripples of positive, negative or even a mixture of both in your life, and throughout the universe. You were promised as a soul having a human experience to be given many opp

A Health and Fitness Update, but first this needs to be said: Winter, YOUR FIRED! Pack up and leave now, and don't come back! Honestly, though, I do love winter. It is great we are getting all this snow for the final weekend of Winterlude and outdoor snow enthusiasts, but even I am so over it this year. Oh well, on an up note: My weight is going down (and Indigo, my cat, has gone from fat to fit), and even the apartment has lost some of its denseness! So yay for 2019 being a

A month ago I shared on Facebook the Angel’s message that 2019 would be about improving the health and fitness across all areas of your life. Today, I wanted to check in to see how that has been going for you and give you an update on my own journey. When you set a goal, the universe will line things up to help succeed with your focus. Sometimes, it will first ask you if you really want to go for this goal by showing you the opposite to see if you will let something stop you

Love is the transformer, the transformed and the transition. Through love, all is possible after all is the source of creation. Life is precious, and whether you are close to those in your life or not, make an effort to love them fully. Be kind, generous, loving, supportive and appreciative of the gifts they bring into your life, whether you see them as possible or negative. Everyone deserves to be loved, even those that may have abandoned, disowned or ignored you, and trespa

When it comes to manifesting anything in life, you need to be clear about what you desire. The clearer you are the more successful the outcome. Today, take the time to think about what it is you wish when it comes to your money and life experiences. What is it you wish money for? Do you wish for new clothes? A new car? Perhaps, your desire is just to pay your bills or the rent on time in full. Or do you wish to start a foundation to help others? Travel more? The skies the lim

Take time each day to tune into your soul through your personal meditative practice. By doing so, you allow yourself an opportunity to connect and awaken a part of your soul that awaits this moment. It is here that your divine potential begins to reveal itself to your consciousness. When this happens, you can start to take action steps to realize your full potential each day. Let us now join in prayer: Dearest Mother/Father God, We come to you today to ask for your divine ass

It is time to speak up for yourself and let your actions speak out for your passions. Today is the day to be seen, known and recognized for all you bring to the world. It is time for you to become comfortable with intimacy (in-to-me-see) with others and to let the doors fly open. After all, without a way in how can you ever be heard? Let us join together in prayer: Dearest Mother/Father Creator, We come to you to today requesting your ever-present assistance to help us to spe

Every day, we always have a choice to be at peace and let the future be (whatever it is to be)! However, many times the human in us struggles with the day to day tasks or lives a life that is filled with suffering and hardships in many ways. When one remembers that these are the products of the ego and have connections rooted past experiences and/or the fear of the future one eases back into the present. By learning to place on attention on the here and now, we begin living f

Welcome to my new official website and blog! I am so excited you are here with me as I spread my wings to fly. I promise to try my best to adhere to the K.I.S.S. format. In other words, I aim to Keep it Short and Simple! I know as a writer I can sometimes get wordy (you can ask anyone who knows me). I also recognize we all have busy lives and want you to be able to read the posts in under 2 minutes. For this blog, I will provide insights regularly into the world of Brian D. C